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Although we commonly refer to "having" a Bar Mitzvah, technically speaking, this is impossible.The term "Bar Mitzvah" refers to a status, in the same way that being a student or parent is a status.On the Shabbat following his 13th birthday, the young man is called up to the Torah. At the conclusion of his final blessing, some synagogues have the custom to good-naturedly pelt the young man with candies.At this point it is customary for the father to recite the following blessing: Following this, the bar mitzvah boy reads a portion from the biblical prophets, called the Haftorah.During a period of persecution 2,000 years ago, Jews were forbidden from reading the Torah, so they instituted a reading from the prophets that corresponds to the theme of that week's Torah portion.
It is proper for the young person to relate some Torah thoughts at the celebration – i.e. The speech usually contains ideas from the weekly Torah portion, and emphasizes the young person's commitment to Jewish values.
Colloquially speaking, when people say, "I had a Bar Mitzvah," it means that they had an aliyah to the Torah in synagogue. The Torah scroll is meticulously written by hand by a God-fearing scribe.
A number of rules ensure that the Torah is written with perfect accuracy, thus maintaining the unbroken chain of tradition back to Mount Sinai.
Every Jew should have a tzedakah box in his home, so he can drop in change on a regular basis.
The money can then be given to support a Jewish school or institution – in your home town or in Israel (every Jews' "home town").